Thursday, November 18, 2010


(c) Loren Fidalgo 2010

My Friend Shawna and me at Oliver Sacks Lecture 2010

My friend Shawna and I went to see the famous doctor Oliver Sacks, speak at The Philadelphia Free Library this past week. He is an internationally known neurologist and author and he has a new book out, THE MIND’S EYE. Oliver Sacks is famous doctor and author for the types of cases he work with. He has worked with many artists with a variety of illness, as well as other people who have, bizarre brain disorders, that do not have an answer or treatment. He wrote the book AWAKENINGS which catapulted him in to the limelight. This book was turned into a movie starring Robert Deniro and Robin Williams. He also wrote the well-known book, THE MAN WHO MISTOOK HIS WIFE FOR A HAT, MIGRAINE and MUSICOPHILIA where he talks about the significance of music for human beings and the brain. I, being terribly fascinated by the workings of the human mind and brain, jumped at the chance to go when my friend asked me if I would be interested to hear him speak.

The lecture was interesting and he talked about some medical cases that are in his new book. Unfortunately, it was not long enough to allow more than three people to ask the doctor questions. A few people did ask questions, however, they had to be cut short because he was doing a book signing. I wanted to raise my hand and ask him about my mysterious obsession with oil painting, which developed out of the blue. I thought for sure, Oliver Sacks would know what this all means. Unfortunately, I did not raise my hand in time, out of social embarrassment. UGGHHH!!! So, the lectured ended and I had no answers to my unusual symptoms that have occurred after an accident I had.
Approximately, 3 years ago, I was in my Ceramics class at Fleisher Art Memorial in Philadelphia, PA (the only free tuition art school in the country). I was in front of a shelving unit, loading some pieces onto the shelf to be fired. I bent down to place some on the lowest shelf, and lightly bumped into the shelf. It was so rickety, that the slightest bump caused it to rock to and fro. There was a super large bisque fired sculptural vase on the top shelf of the unit. It was about 18 inches tall and had a 12 inches in diameter top piece that was 4 inches deep. The top piece was attached to a narrow base. The base alone was about 9 inches tall and an inch and a half thick all around. It weighed at least 5 to 6 pounds. This thing was huge! When I bumped in to the shelving unit, I heard something moving back and forth, and as I picked up my head to see what it was, I caught a glimpse of the vase as it came tumbling down directly on top of the left side of my head! It broke into pieces after colliding with my skull. Initially, I was stunned and grabbed the top of my head. All the students standing there looked on in shock and no one knew what to do. Shawna (who is the Ceramics teacher as well as my friend) came to the rescue and had someone get some ice. I seemed to be ok after 15 minutes and got a cab to go home, so I did not have to drive. When I arrived at my house, I did not feel well, so I got another cab, and went to the emergency room.
The doctor examined me and asked all the routine questions, and did not believe I had a serious injury, so he did not have me get a CAT Scan to see of I had a mild concussion. I left the hospital and went on with my evening and as time went by, I did not give it a lot of thought aside from telling the tale of my war wounds to fellow ceramic students who weren’t there to witness it. I have saved a part of the vase (the base) that did not break apart. I will keep it forever to show the size and weight of it, to whom ever I tell the story to!
Approximately two months after the accident, with no pre-thought, and on a whim, I chose to sign up for a painting and drawing class at Fleisher for the next semester and I decided to no longer take Ceramics class. This was highly out of character for me since I had done Ceramics for over 20 years and loved it. Out of the blue, with out any deliberation, I signed up for oil painting and a drawing class! What was so odd about this change was that I had always had a bit of aversion toward painting and didn’t think I’d be very good at it. I previously did not like anything related to painting and was terribly intimidated by it.
When I went to the first class, I sat and listened to the teacher give all the materials for the semester and I sat there like it was something I was familiar with and I was right at home. Nothing felt out of place to me. For the second class, I brought Titanium White and Mars black paint requested by my teacher, and jumped right into painting. Without any conscious thought, I picked up a palette knife, and began painting with it. I painted the entire painting with the knife. It never occurred to me to use a paintbrush!
I didn’t think that there was any correlation to my starting to paint and the “clunk on the head”; until I took another painting class with a different teacher, and he thought that there might be a connection. What is also very bizarre about the “clunk on the head”, is that I’ve developed a problem distinguishing green and orange and green and red. Here is an example of something that happened while I was on vacation in Florida last April with my in-laws. We were staying at a place called The Villages, where seniors go to retire. There are many golf courses in the communities and everyone drives around in supped-up golf carts. One day while riding in the cart with my husband Paul, I saw another cart coming our way and said, “Oh, look at that cart. It is so cute”. Paul said, “Which one?” I said it was the “orange one”. He said, “where?” I said “there” and pointed ahead of us. He said, “that’s green, hon!”
Another change has been my newly found interest in painting still lives. I had always avoided them in college because they made me uncomfortable for some reason. I have painted approx. 6 paintings in the last 20 years, however, my interest and attention did not take hold and I thought that they were not very good. With the exception of 3 paintings, the other paintings I think are way below mediocre. Currently, without any knowledge how it happened, I have totally fallen in love with oil painting and mixed media art. I love to paint everything from still lives to fantasy, realism to abstract, small to large canvases, black and white to full color! I just love everything about it. I love the smell of the oil paints and the Linseed oil, which I did not like before the “clunk on the head”! I am now also using the large easel that my husband Paul gave me over 20 years ago, and I used for only 2 paintings, back in the day.
I am finding that I can express so much through painting, and I feel like I need to express lots. Happy things, sad things, funny things and scary things, depressing things and enlightened things, all are open to me through oil painting.
The reason I am telling this story along with Oliver Sacks lecture, is because I have been wondering if something happened to me when I was “clunked on the head” with the large vase. I really became aware of the fact that something had to have happened and his lecture brought it up front and center in my mind? I wanted to run it by Oliver Sacks to see what his idea was about what happened, since he has a lot of experience treating artists. Unfortunately, the lecture ran out of time and I didn’t get to ask him about it, however, I left the lecture with more curiosity and questions about the unusual changes in my behavior and color confusion. I realized that I would need to go to see a neurologist to find out if I suffered any damage from the enormous vase that fell on top of my head. I have also been wondering, “Did I take up painting because I was hit on the head, or is it a coincidence?” I do not know the answer to this, but I do know that whatever the reason, I am now in my 2 ½ years of painting and taking painting classes with no end in sight! I have not returned to Ceramics Class.
Last April I won Honorable Mention for one of my paintings “THE PLANT” in Fleisher’s Annual Student Show. Ironically, the painting is in mostly green and orange! These are the two colors that I am having trouble with.
Well, although I did not find the answers to my questions about my head injury from Oliver Sacks, I have been left with the notion that most likely something happened that night in Ceramics Class, when the large vase fell on my head and possibly as a result, I have started painting. If it is not the explanation for my absorption in painting and mixed media, then all I can do is embrace the change of artistic direction and like the meaning of a painting, I may never know the answer. So, I tell myself, “Just paint!”

Tuesday, November 9, 2010


When I went to visit my Gram a couple of weeks ago I was so amused that she had been saving something for me to see, for quite awhile, because it was so unusual and funny. I was unaware that this would, cause me to have a major epiphany about my Gram and me. This past weekend I spent some time with her again and this time she had another surprise for me to see. I at the same time, had a total light bulb moment, about Gram and myself.

My Gram raised myself, my two brothers and sister, and uncle , since I was 7. Along with my Dad, we lived in Toms River, New Jersey. She took care of us alone after he passed away when I was 14. When I was in my growing years, Gram and I did not get along very well. I was a creative, and a very emotional teenager and Gram had a lot on her mind and heart. I never felt like we could even remotely relate to anything we were thinking about or feeling. We just didn’t get each other! You know, the teenager years can be awful for the Moms, Dads and yes, even “the Grams”! My Gram did not talk very much during those years and I knew she was always deep in thought about something in her life. My grandfather had passed away when Gram was 50, not too long after she started raising my younger brother Ken. He was 2 years old when Gram began the journey of caring for him and then for myself, my siblings along with her son, my uncle Ron. When Ken was 5 years old, we joined him at Grams.

As I mentioned, during the teenage years, Gram and I were never really close and I never really knew much about her life. Now my Gram is 97 years old and despite her very swollen legs, she is still hanging in there.. (Sometime in the future, I’d like to share the story of my Gram and her life because it is so fascinating. She has experienced many challenges and she had to endure a lot of stress from the time she was a little girl. But for now, I want to talk about this hidden part of Gram that has really revealed itself to me in the last few weeks) I have had an awakening about Gram and her life.

A couple years ago, my Gram and I worked on an art project that she had wanted to create. My Gram loves to cut out little, funny and cute images from magazines and paste them on her refrigerator, cabinets and wall. Gram found this great imagery on a grocery store bag and decided to cut it out with a pair of little scissors. She went at a very slow pace and it took her many hours. The image consisted of some large strawberries and many connected vines. Gram loves every thing strawberries. The design was quite complex and I was amazed how my Gram did this without cutting an opening in the design. It was entirely one piece! I picked up a stretched canvas for her and together we pasted the image down on the canvas and decoupaged it. It went down on to the canvas smoothly without a problem, as we worked together to lay it out, flat and unwrinkled! Just like Nat King Cole and his daughter Natalie Cole doing their duo performance together with the help of technology, Gram and I together created a work of art! She proudly, has it hanging on her wall in her kitchen and loves to show it off to everyone that stops by her house.

What has the light bulb moment been? Well, Gram saved a strawberry for me for two weeks ago, to show me the three bumps that it had. It looked like a pig from the side view. She was fascinated by it and it amazed me that she had noticed this peculiar fruit and wanted to share it with me. Again, this past weekend, she saved a potato for me to see. It looked like a “baby’s behind” as Gram had told me, and she thought it was so cute! She couldn’t wait to show it to me. I was again, quietly tickled by her observations of the strawberry and potato. I have begun thinking and have come to realize that Gram has always been a creator at her core and no one, not even myself, had recognized it all these years. She was never really able to express this talent because of the direction her life had taken, as well as, the times she grew up in. Women were not encouraged to pursue art or any career for that matter. Gram had over the years done some ceramics, some sewing and she loved to paint the walls in her house, however, thee awareness of this had eluded my conscious thoughts. I never made the connection! I have often wondered, where I got my creativity from and always believed it was from my Dad. I never actually thought through “where did my Dad get it from?” He most definitely got it from his mother, my Gram. What a journey my Gram and I have been on, to realize that we do have some thing in common. I am amazed to come to the realization that indeed we share this incredible gift and the one thing that is so dear to me, my creative ability. Gram had this ability all these years. It was hidden from the world. Possibly, because no one acknowledged she had talent?

Gram and I see each other from a different perspective now. We get along so nicely and we talk a lot about making things. When I go to visit her, I bring lots of interesting stuff to show her such as pretty buttons, felt, fabric, pretty paper and the most recent stuff I am working on. She loves to look at all of it. ,I think that it was not just the making of the strawberry canvas, that has made me realize Gram has the “creative gift”, but the simple fact that Gram saved the strawberry and potato for me to see! It was that Gram was so observant to notice them at all and even more that she wanted to share this creative insight with me. I see my Gram as whole being now and someone who shares my talent. I have wondered if Gram were to be able to express art and creativity in her life, what she may have created! For now, I am comforted that for all the years I lived with Gram and thought we had nothing in common, and all the years after, Gram and I share a very special gift. We are artists.



Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Jackson Browne and my brother Ken

Two weeks ago my brother Ken and I went to see Jackson Browne in Atlantic City. We had such a fun time. I always love to spend time with my brother and it's as enjoyable as seeing Jackson Browne! Jackson Browne is one of my favorite musical artists and I just love his lyrics and melodies. My bro Ken who is a musician himself, and I have been serious followers of Jackson Browne since we were in high school. Listening to him, always brings us back to those times when life offered so much opportunity and promise even if it was complicated! We drove around at night in our cars and listened to “For Everyman” over and over again! Ahhh…those were some days . Since my brother really loves Jackson Browne, too, and we know he is coming to town, we just have to go to see him. We often joke about the style of clothes he wears which are from the 70’s and we wonder if they are the same clothes he wears now?
Well, his concert in AC was great, as always. He sang some new songs and some of his classic old ones. "Late for the Sky", "Fountain of Sorrow" and "For a Dancer". He also sang "For Everyman" which was so awesome and reminds my brother and I of each other when we hear it. As always, Jackson Browne never disappoints us. The entire evening was so enjoyable and memorable, but maybe not as memorable as the up close chance meeting with him two years ago. My brother and I are always involved in something fun and over the top, and sometimes it can take your breath away and this meeting did just that.
About two years ago my brother Ken and I went to see Jackson Browne at The Tower Theater in Philly (a great concert) and we actually were able to meet him after the show was over. There was a crowd of people waiting on the side of The Tower and we thought that he would be coming out that way to get on his bus. We both said “let’s go check this out?” So we cruised on over to the crowd and waited with the other fans for over an hour. Initially, I thought to myself, "Oh, how cool is this? I'm going to get his autograph and see him up close". I anxiously waited for him to appear from the dark alleyway. But somewhere during the waiting time, my perspective had changed from one of Jackson Browne being a "celebrity" to one of a fellow artist being on the creative journey in his life. I felt that "I no longer wanted his autograph or photo!" What I have always been interested in was what made him tick creatively? How clever is he to write the lyrics he writes? Does his he have a method to his writing and a “bag of tricks”? I never however, thought about wanting to meet him. There we’re lots of women, ooohing and ahhing over him and climbing over each other to just get to touch him and get a photo, so I just looked on. I wasn’t there for that reason. I was surprised by how he looked different than I expected and that he looked a lot smaller in stature and he was soft spoken. I didn't know what to make of the greeting as he walked up to my brother and me. I was struck by thoughts about how it must be having people just wanting something from you all the time because you are a famous person. Since I didn't know why I was there, I just kicked back with my head in my hands and leaned on the barricade that was there to protect him from the fans!. As he approached me, I could only look up at him. I tried to make a connection, eye to eye, artist to artist for just one second, if possible, a moment in time. I was remembering all those years that I had listened to him over and over again with such passion and I never thought that I would be this close to him and have nothing to say! Well, Jackson stared back at me as if he was waiting for me to ask for his autograph or photo and he didn't know what to make of my inability to speak. He lightly tapped me on my forearm and chuckled, being perplexed by my ambivalent attitude. He walked away for a second to take a photo and again he walked back in our direction. Still , I could only look at him and say nothing! While he was walking around the barricade, I had this idea to give him one my cheese business cards that says, " You're the cheese" to see if he would look at my art. I thought that all these years I have listened to his art, and now I wanted to see if he would take some time to see mine. His security guy took it from me and was totally confused since he thought it was a real piece of cheese. I had thoughts that were, “maybe he would check out my website and experience my world, my art, artist to artist. And again, I thought, "Hey, Jackson Browne might be looking at my art" One artist to another artist. "How cool is that?" And as Jackson Browne walked away into the darkness to enter on to his bus, I was left with the feeling of exhilaration and I realized that something really meaningful had just happened to me as a person and as an artist. I realized that the leap from an artist who is no one to one who is some one, is very short distance and at the same time, uncertain. You just gotta take it.
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Saturday, September 18, 2010


Hey, everyone... I'm so excited because I figured out a few features for running my blog!! Finally, things are starting to make sense. I haven't put up a post in a while because I was really having difficulty understanding the whole "BLOG" language. Please be patient with me until I get the hang of it. It has been a struggle to get MIND GIGGLES working right. I'm a little uncertain about all the things you can put on a blog, nevertheless, I'm am still going to post some thoughts and ideas. Come with me on this journey into the creative spirit.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010


Well, hello there. Thanks for coming to my opening for my first blog post on Mind Giggles. Let me just start to express my struggles with my computer. Yes, it is a MAC and we have a up and down relationship. When things run smoothly, I love my Mac. But when things are a not going well, well let's just say we are not very good friends! You see, I've started this new blog and let me tell ya, it is such a challenge to get it up and working okay? ARGHH!!! I am a somewhat confused as to figuring out some of the details and these things called "gadgets". Blogs have these things called "gadgets" and they say to "put a gadget here and put a gadget there". UGGHHH!!! It all seems so sketchy to me at this point. I'm trying to figure out all the options that this blog host offers, and I'm having quite a mental workout! I tried to start a blog on another web host, and oh, my God was it a nightmare and a total loosing battle. I was swimming up stream the entire time trying to learn the program. so I decided to try and give BLOGGER a go and I am having a little more progress with it. Please hang in there with me, as l figure out how to navigate around my new venture, Mind Giggles. I will begin to post things on Mind Giggles as I learn them, so you will see how I make baby steps toward learning this darn and never ending scary and I mean frightening thing I reluctantly call my computer. If you have had a struggle getting your blog going, I would like to hear from you with the scoop on how you have gotten past it.